April 9, 2012

9 Apr

Twenty-two years ago, we had just found out that we would be expecting the beautiful little girl that would come to be my god-daughter.  On Oct. 18th, 1990, the most perfect baby girl was born.  “She was the one”, as my Paw-Paw called her, “that broke the dozen.”  She has grown into a beautiful young woman and found her soul-mate.  Today, I gained a god-son-in-law and I couldn’t ask for anyone better for her, he treats her the way you dream, hope, and pray for someone to treat someone so special to you.  She is loved more than she will ever know and I couldn’t be more proud of her.  With tears in my eyes, I proudly boast that today my god-daughter became a wife.  It’s the first of many titles that she will earn throughout her life, but it’s the one that starts them all.

 

Moxley Murder

27 Jan

While watching Nancy Grace and hearing of Michael Skakel asking for a reduced sentence, I decided to take it upon myself to learn a bit more about the case.

 

If Michael Skakel did commit the atrocious crime, we are left to look at all he battled and accomplished throughout the years.  He battled with alcohol addiction and dyslexia, but he accomplished graduating and competed in the national speed skiing circuit, he married, divorced, and even had a child.  None of these life experiences would his victim ever have, because her life was cut short at 15yrs old; which leaves our minds wondering how can he ask for a reduced sentence, look at all he has done that HE ensured Martha Moxley would never do.

 

However, if he did not commit the murder… who got away with it?  The prosecutor obviously had enough evidence to sway a jury to find Michael Skakel guilty or the defense simply failed at defending.  Did Michael Skakel believe that his family ties would inevitably allow him to walk away a free man?  Did he forget that although he had powerful family ties, he himself was nothing more than blank face on the street?  Did he truly not commit the crime and his past behaviors come back and bite him in the rear?

 

Was justice served, however cold, or is there someone out there still walking around having gotten away with murder?  Most of his adolescent misbehavior, addiction, and attraction to killing small animals can be followed to a root that reads Anne Reynolds Skakel’s death.  The normal in us says that there are lots of children that deal with death early on in life and do not resort to such a gross display of actions.  This is where I agree.  An individual who holds a psychological affliction may turn to these types of acts, but the normal individual (even guilt ridden) will find other ways to deal with the recent turn of events.  Since Michael was an adolescent at the time and believes he should have been tried in juvenile court, should his father’s name had been dragged through the mud as well?  Pointing the finger and showing the neglect of his children after his wife passed?  Not getting Michael the help he needed BEFORE it escalated to the point of murder.  OR did someone KNOW that Michael would take the fall because of his past misbehavior?

 

Whether Michael is guilty or innocent, only one thing is for certain, Martha Moxley never had the chance to grow up, graduate, go to a dance, get married, or have children.  A piece of her parents died with her that night along with the hopes and dreams that every parent imagines when they have a child.   If he committed the crime, then he should sit back, shut up, and relish in the thought that he accomplished what his victim never would; as well as knowing he will be up for parole in 2013.  If he did not commit the crime, maybe his constant battle with the justice system will eventually bring the correct person to justice and let the parents, family, and spirit of Martha Moxley rest in peace.

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Sometimes…

19 Jan

Sometimes when I’m feeling lonely,

I stand outside and sing.

Loud and clear,

for all the world to hear.

Loud enough,

to reach Heaven.

Then a single ray of Sunshine,

makes all the sadness go away.

‘Cause I know,

that my Momma’s still my biggest fan.

I can feel her smile,

in my heart.

I can hear her laughter,

in my memory.

Her hugs are now rays of sunshine,

Her voice floats on the wind,

and her words are written in the clouds.

Sometimes when I’m lonely,

I stand outside and sing.

Loud and clear,

for the world to hear.

Loud enough,

to reach Heaven.

For my Momma,

who’s still my biggest fan.

 

Netiquette 101

1 Dec

Netiquette 101:
1) All CAPS means you’re screaming. So, don’t do that; unless you are screaming LoL (You’ll tick ppl off that know this and you won’t have a clue why they’re upset LOL)

2) If a decoder ring is required to figure out a post; it might take ppl longer to respond LoL

3) Same rules in life are true on the ‘net. If you can’t say anything nice to someone, then don’t say anything at all; unless that’s just “your thing” LOL

4) “LoL” does not make anything nicer. So, if a person types something insulting and they type LOL/LMAO/ROFL or anything laughing, you may consider yourself insulted w/ a smile OR they could be joking. (This is where #5 REALLY comes in handy)

5) THIS IS A BIGGIE!! See the CAPS? That means I yelled that.LOL (I laughed because I got a kick out of my own joke)  Do NOT assume ANYTHING!!! (exclamation points to really stress this point.) Because you are upset and having a bad day, does NOT mean that every post you read w/ an attitude (because you’ve had a bad day) was actually written w/ an attitude.  Most people will type *sarcasm* *funny face* or some type of emote that will give away if it’s written in a foul manner. PLEASE remember this! Write it on a post-it and stick it on your desk so you don’t forget.

6) If you do not play the games, don’t yell at people for sending you invites.  Why? Because the game shows that you play (even if you do not).  There are settings to keep the invitations from being sent to you in your own personal settings.

7) Everyone likes you.  Because they did not “like”, reply, or comment on your post… does not mean that someone is out spreading rumors about you. It means they’re not on their social site at the moment or they are following rules 1,2, or 3 of the Netiquette.

8) ANOTHER BIGGIE!! Just as your page is YOUR page; their page is THEIR page.  If you are insulted by their personal posts, there are a number of options available to you. You can delete the person or choose to not read their posts.  Unless you are tagged in the post, it will NOT show up on any of your friends pages that do not share the same friend.

This concludes our seminar on Netiquette 101! I hope I made you laugh while you read it or shake your head because you know someone who falls into one of the categories, and if you do feel free to send them this blog link to help educate them ;) ~

 

Rose

3 Nov

There was a song that used to be sung around Halloween.  Oh how I hated that song. There was an old woman of skin and bones. ooooo OOOOO oooo Who lived down by the old grave yard ooooo OOOOO oooo. That song gave me the heebie jeebies when it was sung at a sleep over, because I was reminded of Ms. Rose.  Living in the country surrounded by family had its perks; I could ride my bike anywhere and everywhere.  From our house to Petry Bridge was probably a half mile or so.  The only person that would ride bikes with me was sick, leaving me to venture out by myself.

I pedaled my bike all the way to Petry Bridge stood on the side to throw rocks at the turtles.  It wasn’t long before I was bored; turtle popping was definitely more fun w/ my friend.  I made my way down the bridge slope and decided to read the book I had brought with me, “The Tale of Benjamin Bunny” by Beatrix Potter (amazing the things you can remember).  The water slowly running and the every so often plop of a turtle into the water or a fish jumping was perfect accompaniment for the book. A twig snapping in the distance caught my attention; I looked up and saw a brown rabbit chewing on some clover. By now the book was no longer interesting to me; I wanted to see what other animals I could find.

I got back on my bike and was heading to the brush pocket by the curve.  Surely there should be more than a few rabbits there. I laid my bike down in the ditch and forced my way through the brush and about 10 feet in, there was a house.  It startled me; I didn’t even know there was a house there.  The old lady sitting on the porch in a rocker beckoned me to come closer, “Hello there little friend!” she called cheerily, “It’s alright, I don’t bite.” she opened her mouth as she pointed, “See? I ain’t got no teeth anyhow!” I laughed and walked up to the porch.

“I’m sorry to intrude. I was just looking for some more animals.  There was a rabbit by the bridge.” I replied.

“You are not intruding! AND you came to the right place, there’s always little animals scurrying around.  Who do you belong to?” She asked.

“My mom’s Laura Marie and my…” she cut me off. “You’re Theresa’s (Pronounced Tee rè see) granddaughter?!”

“Yes ma’am.”

“How is old Baldy and Laura Marie?”

“They’re good.”  I said as I sat down on the porch.  She began telling me stories of people I didn’t know and the next thing I knew it was starting to get dark.  I might have been able to ride my bike anywhere, but my behind better be home before that sun set.  I bid my good-bye and she said, “You tell them that Rose said hello!”

“Yes ma’am. I will!”  I pedaled as fast I could all the way home, but as soon as I hit the door I was bombarded with questions.  “Where were you?!” Nothing doing, she didn’t believe I had rode down to Petry Bridge, because they went there and couldn’t find me.  Before I could say anything else, I was ushered to the table, to the tub, and then to bed.  I don’t know how, but I simply forgot about where I had spent most of the day.

The next day Paw-Paw yelled out the door as I was getting on my bike, “Don’t you leave this yard!”  When you have 5.5 acres as a yard, you’re not exactly confined.  Momma left to go to the store and I asked to stay behind, because I knew if I asked Paw-Paw just nice enough, he’d let me go ride my bike.  Sure enough… he did.  I was riding past the curve when I heard, “Well hello there Little Tee!  Come to visit me again?”  I wasn’t sure how she had seen me, but I was definitely there to visit her again.   She had asked if I told them she said hello and I had to confess that I had not and how the night before turned out.  “Well, I promise not to keep you so late this time.  Only one story and you should be home before your Momma gets back.”  Leaving the house she called out again, “Tell them that Rose said hello.”  I made it home before Momma, Paw-Paw was sitting in his rocking chair when I walked in.  “Ms. Rose said hello.”

“Rose who?” he asked.

“I don’t know, the old lady that lives in the curve going to Petry Bridge.”

“Where?” his voice was a little strained and I repeated myself.  “Rose said hello?!” his voice even more strained for the second question.

“Yes sir.”

“Is that why you were so late yesterday?”

“Yes sir.”

“Fix me a cup of coffee and bring the cookies from my room to the table.”

I did as I was told and when we sat at the table he wanted to know everything. I told him what she looked like, what she told me, and every other question he asked.  When Momma walked through the door, he told me to go feed the cats (with 20 something cats, this took a while).  When I came in, we were all getting in the car.  They wanted me to show them where I went, so I did.  We got out of the car and I pushed my way through the brush and came to a semi-clearing where this old run down house barely stood.  The porch that I had sat on for two days was hanging off the front of the house.  The rocking chair was gone and the old lady was nowhere to be seen.

I was confused.  I figured certain I would get in a lot of trouble, because how can she believe that I was somewhere when it’s obvious it was impossible.  I couldn’t understand it.  Paw-Paw comforted me as best he could, and when we got home Momma pulled out some old photo albums.  I loved looking at photo albums, for some reason it soothed me.  Until I turned a few pages into and there sitting in a rocking chair, on a porch, in front of a house that I had just seen the past two days, was the old lady.  It was a photograph taken with three other people in it.  I pointed and told them that this was the woman I had seen.  Momma carefully removed it from the sticky page and read the back.  In my grandmother’s handwriting was “Tee, Cootie, Rose, and Mims 1969” and on the next page was a cut out newspaper obituary with the death year 1969.  I never saw Ms. Rose again, no matter how many times I stopped after that.

Part 2

2 Nov

I remember being scared to death of the Easter Bunny.  I didn’t care how much candy he brought or how puffy his white cotton tale was supposed to be, I wanted NOTHING to do with him.  My mom knew and didn’t force anything, she made it a game to go pick the grass in the pasture and make a nest outside for the Easter Bunny.  Eventually, they explained what I saw was not the Easter Bunny, but as a child until I was five or six… I didn’t want that thing invited in.  Here’s why, I awoke one night thirsty and made my way into the kitchen for a glass of water; which for a child of short stature was not a quiet feat.  I scrapped the chair against the floor to the kitchen sink, climbed to get a glass, and filled it with water.  I began to walk back to my bedroom, but as I reached the doorway of the kitchen and the living room (there was no door, just a doorway) I couldn’t get through.  It was like I was walking into a solid glass door and I remember not being able to understand it and when I put my hand up to it, my hand went through.  When you live with strange, strange isn’t so… strange.

I made it halfway to my room, my bedroom door was midway of the living room, my parents was the near the front door, and my Paw-Paw’s was all the way through the kitchen and down the little hallway to the left, but all of the rooms were attached by doors within the rooms.  Standing in front of me was something very tall, very black, and those red eyes.  It emitted a growl that resonated and the floor beneath my feet vibrated.  I remember trying to scream and at first barely a squeak came out, but then I found my voice and I screamed as loud as I could.  It wasn’t happy; in fact it was quite pissed when I began to scream.  No one came and the echo that I could normally hear throughout the house was not there.  The screams and growls sounded like I was inside of a car with all of the windows rolled up.  I was shoved against the wall with a force that knocked the breath right out of me.

Everything on the television began to slide off as it was tilted forward until it landed with a loud thud, then tilted again to land upside down. The bookshelf flew from the wall so quickly that the books stayed put.  The chair that Mom sat in flipped end for end around the room.  The next thing I remember, I was in bed with my head covered. I wasn’t sure how I got there and I wasn’t about to peek my head out; I had convinced myself that I had dreamed the whole thing.  That’s the logical explanation, correct?

I tried to go back to sleep and maybe I did doze off here and there, but I didn’t take the covers off of my head until sunlight peaked through my window and I could hear Paw-Paw starting the coffee pot. I dropped my legs over the side of my bed to hop down when I heard, “What in the hell happened in here?!”  It was all a dream, right? I made it to my doorway as Mom was walking out of hers, everyone stopped dead in their tracks.  I began screaming, “The Easter Bunny did it!! The Easter Bunny did it!!!”  That night everyone experienced something different, yet all of the experiences were sinister.  My Dad made up his mind that we were no longer staying in the house.  In fact, we moved roughly 20 feet in front of it.

I guess you’re questioning, why did you think it was the Easter Bunny?  Well, my Dad raised what he called “Show Rabbits” the beautiful, snow white New Zealand Rabbits with red eyes. The sinister thing was tall, like I had always seen people dressed up as Easter Bunnies are, and it had red eyes, like my Dad’s rabbits.  I had just naturally assumed it was black because it was dark in the house. I was a small child and that’s where my mind went with what I saw; that it was the Easter Bunny.

Life

30 Sep

This is a bit off of the beaten path that I had laid, but none-the-less was in my head and needed to be put down.

LIFE… life is like a book, it has a beginning, a middle, and an end.  There are temporary  and permanent characters, and like any good book it has multiple falls and climaxes.  The memories we have are like the movies of our book; sometimes they are better than the book and sometimes they aren’t.  Let us not forget our soundtrack, those songs that can take you back and make you relive those moments, bawl your eyes our, or laugh your head off… that is life.  It’s what  YOU make it, you’re the star, you’re the co-author, and God is the primary author.  HE gave us free will and with that free will, we help him write our pages.

Throughout our life, chapters come to an end and begin anew, but the permanent characters never change; not even once they die.  Because throughout the rest of the chapters of your life, you will thank them and remember them.  One of the most important things to remember is that when you end a chapter, not everyone in that chapter deserves to be lost.  For example: If your spouse passes on and you have children.  The chapter of your life with your spouse has ended, but the children remain.  When the new chapter is began the children deserve to be a part of it.  They have become a part of your Book of Life, the chapter is closed, but the book remains the same.  Your book has not ended, therefore the permanent characters should remain.

Who is to blame when your children are no longer around to apologize to?  As the bible says, “Honor thy father and mother.”  If the co-author has cast out the permanent characters, then sometimes honoring them is to leave them be.  Life’s what YOU make it, you will have no one to blame but yourself.

Then there are the other individual’s life book that you belong in.  When you see that you no longer fit into their book, without even the decency of a “good” write out, it throws many things into chaos and perspective at the same time.  The first thing is to remember that you are worthy and love yourself.  It is they who are not worthy to continue their role in your book.  The second thing to remember is that you are the co-author, give it to HIM, and you can’t go wrong.

LIFE… with all its trials and tribulations, you’re only the co-author. :)

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